The attitude of patience for Children

Delinquency in children is normal.

In children's life, especially in young children we often encounter the habits or bad behavior in children, such as bedwetting, thumb sucking, competition with siblings, nocturnal fear, aggression (tantrums and angry) and so . This behavior is actually not a disease, it is common that must be addressed by parents. These symptoms are caused by emotional and mental growth of children who have not been established.
How parents' attitudes toward the case of disruption of temperament in children? Broadly speaking, the parents should have the following attitudes:

1. Do not take disorders such as faulty temperament or something that needs to be condemned.
2. Parents should try to find what the cause or the temperament of the background interference.
3. Suppose the child as a patient, who needs to get the guidance and directives as well as the growing discipline in children. This is because small children can not differentiate between good and bad. Also need to foster respect for the child to parents.
4. Parents are trying to solve the problems facing the child by showing affection to children, not hatreds.

Bedwetting

Bedwetting is a disorder in young children. For children who can not urinate own bed-wetting is still reasonable. However, when it can dispose, still wet the bed need to be addressed. This disorder is most commonly caused by psychological factors, namely due to reduced maternal attention and affection, such as mother's attention is concentrated on newborns. This causes the child's frustration. Parents need to face with the patient, and show attention to the child. To prevent bed-wetting becomes protracted, drinking should be reduced at night and before the parents go to bed, the child should be taken to the bathroom need to be given an appointment if you do not wet the bed will be rewarded. This will create confidence in children.

Other disorders that often arises is jealous of siblings, especially in newborns. Mother's attention is usually spilled on her son, so the lack of attention to him. The child should be mentally prepared to deal with the new baby. In devoting affection and respect, parents should be no distinction.

Gentle

Thumb sucking is a habit that is often found in children. This bad habit should be avoided. Parents do not have to nag, but gently tells the ugliness or the effects of finger sucking, for example, will reduce kencatikan, damage the teeth and so on.

Children are often too difficult to sleep and were seized with fear at night. Parents need to find why, maybe because of, lonely, if the child needed a friend, then toys like dolls can be a friend of children. If it can be lit as bright as possible. Children are sometimes frightened after a bad dream. The fear vanished, after the parents keep a minute until the child is asleep again.

Aggression

Aggression disorder is a disorder that often cause parents to panic or worry. Children are often angry and raging with crying or rolling around on the floor often creates confusion. Such behavior is usually because the child is often not fulfilled his wish. However, this practice should be prevented, not to become a habit. Parents should not wait if the child is in such circumstances. Long the child will realize that his behavior is not correct. Parents need to be vigilant. Situations that could pose conflicts of parents and children need to be prevented.

To prevent such aggression, the child must be channeled to positive activities, which are cooperatif (cooperation) and competitif (positive competition) through a child's game. As a means of socialization, children's games will be able to develop a more roles to assist in the formation of extensive positive personality. It also requires a container, such as play groups, recreation and so on.

Disorders due to psychological factors in addition to temperament, there is also the possibility of a symptom of illness, for example, a fussy child, perhaps because of illness.