Premature ejaculation is a sexual dysfunction that many experienced men, in addition to erectile dysfunction. But at first many men who experience premature ejaculation did not realize that it include sexual dysfunction. They just feel and complain to himself, why ejaculation happens too fast. Even when their partners complain, maybe they just replied that indeed be the case.
According to available information, approximately 50% of complaints of premature ejaculation occurs in young men and 1 in 3 adults report that they ejaculate sooner than they expected. In men who are married, have 30-40% of premature ejaculation. Many men eventually experience difficulty in achieving and maintaining erections are also starting from the old condition of premature ejaculation and untreated.
According to available information, approximately 50% of complaints of premature ejaculation occurs in young men and 1 in 3 adults report that they ejaculate sooner than they expected. In men who are married, have 30-40% of premature ejaculation. Many men eventually experience difficulty in achieving and maintaining erections are also starting from the old condition of premature ejaculation and untreated.
Is it premature ejaculation?
There is some notion espoused by experts of premature ejaculation:
1. Limitation of premature ejaculation is based on a specific time when the ejaculation.
2. Premature ejaculation is determined by how many times a man can make a move when having sex before ejaculation. There are classify premature ejaculation that occurs less than 20 times the wobble.
3. Premature ejaculation is defined as the inability to hold until their partner reaches orgasm.
4. Premature ejaculation can be determined by whether or not the man to control ejaculation to occur in accordance with her wishes.
The fourth sense that now seems more acceptable. Based on the understanding that the fourth, it means the inability to control premature ejaculation is ejaculation that occurs within a very short time, which does not comply with his wishes, at least 50% of chance of having sexual relations, provided that no sexual harassment to the wife.
This disorder occurs varies from mild, moderate, to severe. Premature ejaculation means the ejaculate occurred after mild sexual relationship was brief, only a few times friction. In premature ejaculation is, ejaculation occurred after the entry of the penis into the vagina. Being in severe premature ejaculation, sexual intercourse could not take place since last ejaculation before the penis into the vagina. Ejaculation occurs so penis touching the outside of the female genitals. Even a small percentage of men with premature ejaculation have experienced weight before his penis touches the woman's outer genitals.
But whatever happens kind of premature ejaculation, men who experience the same feeling dissatisfied because ejaculation occurs in very short time in spite of himself so that the sexual relationship must end. On the other hand, female spouses equally, was not getting satisfaction.
Causes of premature ejaculation
There are several theories of the causes of premature ejaculation:
A. Premature ejaculation can be caused by a disorder that is psikofisiologik. There are several issues that the background for the occurrence of premature ejaculation, the marital relationship is not harmonious, happy feelings toward her partner, and fear of women.
2. Anxiety also plays an important role in the process of premature ejaculation because of such problems is often a part of the situation and almost all patients can control ejaculation during masturbation. Illicit sexual relations and the fear of other people known to encourage the emergence of anxiety. Dissatisfaction of sexual partners will also add to the anxiety that would exacerbate premature end.
3. Habit of reaching orgasm and ejaculation in a hurry before. For example, like masturbation or masturbation in a hurry.
4. Less functioning of serotonin, a neurotransmitter material that serves to inhibit ejaculation.
5. Disruption events that govern neural control ejaculation (ejaculation reflex hypersensitivity). Men with erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation in general. Conversely, men with premature ejaculation may eventually have erectile dysfunction.
In contrast to erectile dysfunction, men who experience premature ejaculation are able to achieve erection and have sex even though too rapid ejaculation occurs. Only in severe premature ejaculation, sexual intercourse did not take place because it had already occurred before ejaculation penis into the vagina. On erectile dysfunction, sexual intercourse can not take place due to disrupted erection, or if they had held, immediately suspended because the erection is lost.
The impact of premature ejaculation
Whatever type of heavy-light, which would cause premature ejaculation sexual intercourse took place not in harmony. In premature ejaculation, disharmony and even caused dissatisfaction on both sides. Men who experience premature ejaculation are not satisfied that the sexual relationship lasted very short in spite of himself. Although able to achieve orgasm, men experience premature ejaculation also feel very disappointed for not being able to give their partner sexual satisfaction. Moreover, if the partner expresses disappointment in the form of reaction to blame the patient.
Furthermore, the reaction is a feeling of fear or worry every time they have sex. This feeling will only worsen the condition of premature ejaculation. If this situation continues, then eventually he was able to experience erectile dysfunction.
Women who have experienced premature ejaculation couples usually can not reach orgasm because of a sexual relationship soon ended. Disappointments that arise can then be turned into annoyance with fear every time they have sex. Further result can be loss of sexual drive and dyspareunia (pain during intercourse).
Be aware, in fact premature ejaculation not indicate a problem in sperm, that is, men who experience premature ejaculation does not mean impaired sperm. So premature ejaculation is no evidence that the man's sperm disorder. Nor does it cause infertility in men.
But in severe premature ejaculation, can also occur barriers pregnancy because sperm did not get to go through the vagina due to ejaculation that occurs before intercourse takes place. Barriers to new issues of pregnancy becomes more and more to exacerbate problems arising from premature ejaculation.
How to overcome premature ejaculation
There are several ways you can do to overcome premature ejaculation. First, with sex therapy. Second, using drugs to control ejaculation. Third, with nerve surgery. The first and the second lot to do and give good results. But a third way, although never performed in a particular country, until now it was not popular and not widely used.
Sex therapy, which is done to control ejaculation done with the help of his wife. Basically the way this is done through several steps. You can follow the example of the following steps:
A. The first step,
wife masturbating on husbands who suffer from premature ejaculation to the position of her husband lying on your back, until my husband feels like to orgasm and ejaculation.
2. The second step,
when the husband feels like to orgasm and ejaculation, the wife put pressure on the penis with the thumb, forefinger and middle finger, for a few seconds to prevent the occurrence of ejaculation.
3. The third step,
wife to husband to masturbate erection sufficient, then immediately put into the vagina of the wife on the husband's position without movement. When her husband was going to ejaculate, his wife immediately lifted her and put pressure on the penis as in step two. Furthermore, repeated stimulation with masturbation, and continued with sexual intercourse as above.
4. The fourth step,
after a few days doing the above exercise. In this step, the husband was allowed to apply pressure to maintain the erection during sexual intercourse with the wife's position at the top.
5. The fifth step,
performed when the husband was better able to control ejaculation. In this step the couples can have sexual relations with a side position. If this place is a husband capable of holding ejaculation, then sexual relations can be done in the husband's position at the top.
The exercise is expected to still be done for 6-12 months after that, anytime when needed. But this way is not always easy to do for several reasons, namely the closure of the man against his wife, the lack of communication and collaboration of husband and wife in sexual problems, and feeling reluctant or lazy to do exercise because they have to waste time and is considered impractical.
In addition to doing sex therapy can also be done following these tips:
A. Point of mind and concentration, avoid your mind on something that had nothing to do with sex during intercourse. It could also be thinking about the things you do not like. This will reduce the stimulation received. Keep as well as anxiety and worry.
2. Reduce the sensitivity on the penis head. Use a condom, cream, or other sex aids that can reduce the stimulation received by the men. Choose the type of condom use 2-3 layers thick or condoms at once (first use condoms until 1/4 sections cover the penis, the condom-2 used 1/2 parts cover the penis and a condom to cover the whole penis-3). In this way the sensitivity of the glans (penis glands) will be slightly reduced and sensation condoms layer 3 will feel good to your wife.
3. Pull technique. When the husband would rush to orgasm removed in time, do not let the sperm out of all. This technique takes the role of the wife in order to be successful.
4. Squeeze technique (Sex is part of the therapy). When will the ejaculation, the husband must immediately inform the wife that the wife immediately hit the bottom of the penis head (glands penis) with your thumb finger to block the flow of ejaculate sperm to complete phase of ejaculation. Or by pressing the base of the penis with the thumb finger. The pressure of the thumb finger will prevent the flow of seminal fluid / semen out.
5. The exact position of intercourse. Look for intercourse positions that usually you can take a long time. Wear these positions early in the game so you can last longer and your partner have an orgasm or out first.
6. Longer foreplay. Warm up (foreplay) much longer until your wife is really turned on (if necessary until an orgasm), so even if you ejaculate in a fast but your wife has also been satisfied.
Method of treatment of premature ejaculation the other is by using efficacious drugs to control ejaculation. There are several types of drugs that can control ejaculation. But given the drug has side effects, then its use should be under the supervision of a physician.
There is some notion espoused by experts of premature ejaculation:
1. Limitation of premature ejaculation is based on a specific time when the ejaculation.
2. Premature ejaculation is determined by how many times a man can make a move when having sex before ejaculation. There are classify premature ejaculation that occurs less than 20 times the wobble.
3. Premature ejaculation is defined as the inability to hold until their partner reaches orgasm.
4. Premature ejaculation can be determined by whether or not the man to control ejaculation to occur in accordance with her wishes.
The fourth sense that now seems more acceptable. Based on the understanding that the fourth, it means the inability to control premature ejaculation is ejaculation that occurs within a very short time, which does not comply with his wishes, at least 50% of chance of having sexual relations, provided that no sexual harassment to the wife.
This disorder occurs varies from mild, moderate, to severe. Premature ejaculation means the ejaculate occurred after mild sexual relationship was brief, only a few times friction. In premature ejaculation is, ejaculation occurred after the entry of the penis into the vagina. Being in severe premature ejaculation, sexual intercourse could not take place since last ejaculation before the penis into the vagina. Ejaculation occurs so penis touching the outside of the female genitals. Even a small percentage of men with premature ejaculation have experienced weight before his penis touches the woman's outer genitals.
But whatever happens kind of premature ejaculation, men who experience the same feeling dissatisfied because ejaculation occurs in very short time in spite of himself so that the sexual relationship must end. On the other hand, female spouses equally, was not getting satisfaction.
Causes of premature ejaculation
There are several theories of the causes of premature ejaculation:
A. Premature ejaculation can be caused by a disorder that is psikofisiologik. There are several issues that the background for the occurrence of premature ejaculation, the marital relationship is not harmonious, happy feelings toward her partner, and fear of women.
2. Anxiety also plays an important role in the process of premature ejaculation because of such problems is often a part of the situation and almost all patients can control ejaculation during masturbation. Illicit sexual relations and the fear of other people known to encourage the emergence of anxiety. Dissatisfaction of sexual partners will also add to the anxiety that would exacerbate premature end.
3. Habit of reaching orgasm and ejaculation in a hurry before. For example, like masturbation or masturbation in a hurry.
4. Less functioning of serotonin, a neurotransmitter material that serves to inhibit ejaculation.
5. Disruption events that govern neural control ejaculation (ejaculation reflex hypersensitivity). Men with erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation in general. Conversely, men with premature ejaculation may eventually have erectile dysfunction.
In contrast to erectile dysfunction, men who experience premature ejaculation are able to achieve erection and have sex even though too rapid ejaculation occurs. Only in severe premature ejaculation, sexual intercourse did not take place because it had already occurred before ejaculation penis into the vagina. On erectile dysfunction, sexual intercourse can not take place due to disrupted erection, or if they had held, immediately suspended because the erection is lost.
The impact of premature ejaculation
Whatever type of heavy-light, which would cause premature ejaculation sexual intercourse took place not in harmony. In premature ejaculation, disharmony and even caused dissatisfaction on both sides. Men who experience premature ejaculation are not satisfied that the sexual relationship lasted very short in spite of himself. Although able to achieve orgasm, men experience premature ejaculation also feel very disappointed for not being able to give their partner sexual satisfaction. Moreover, if the partner expresses disappointment in the form of reaction to blame the patient.
Furthermore, the reaction is a feeling of fear or worry every time they have sex. This feeling will only worsen the condition of premature ejaculation. If this situation continues, then eventually he was able to experience erectile dysfunction.
Women who have experienced premature ejaculation couples usually can not reach orgasm because of a sexual relationship soon ended. Disappointments that arise can then be turned into annoyance with fear every time they have sex. Further result can be loss of sexual drive and dyspareunia (pain during intercourse).
Be aware, in fact premature ejaculation not indicate a problem in sperm, that is, men who experience premature ejaculation does not mean impaired sperm. So premature ejaculation is no evidence that the man's sperm disorder. Nor does it cause infertility in men.
But in severe premature ejaculation, can also occur barriers pregnancy because sperm did not get to go through the vagina due to ejaculation that occurs before intercourse takes place. Barriers to new issues of pregnancy becomes more and more to exacerbate problems arising from premature ejaculation.
How to overcome premature ejaculation
There are several ways you can do to overcome premature ejaculation. First, with sex therapy. Second, using drugs to control ejaculation. Third, with nerve surgery. The first and the second lot to do and give good results. But a third way, although never performed in a particular country, until now it was not popular and not widely used.
Sex therapy, which is done to control ejaculation done with the help of his wife. Basically the way this is done through several steps. You can follow the example of the following steps:
A. The first step,
wife masturbating on husbands who suffer from premature ejaculation to the position of her husband lying on your back, until my husband feels like to orgasm and ejaculation.
2. The second step,
when the husband feels like to orgasm and ejaculation, the wife put pressure on the penis with the thumb, forefinger and middle finger, for a few seconds to prevent the occurrence of ejaculation.
3. The third step,
wife to husband to masturbate erection sufficient, then immediately put into the vagina of the wife on the husband's position without movement. When her husband was going to ejaculate, his wife immediately lifted her and put pressure on the penis as in step two. Furthermore, repeated stimulation with masturbation, and continued with sexual intercourse as above.
4. The fourth step,
after a few days doing the above exercise. In this step, the husband was allowed to apply pressure to maintain the erection during sexual intercourse with the wife's position at the top.
5. The fifth step,
performed when the husband was better able to control ejaculation. In this step the couples can have sexual relations with a side position. If this place is a husband capable of holding ejaculation, then sexual relations can be done in the husband's position at the top.
The exercise is expected to still be done for 6-12 months after that, anytime when needed. But this way is not always easy to do for several reasons, namely the closure of the man against his wife, the lack of communication and collaboration of husband and wife in sexual problems, and feeling reluctant or lazy to do exercise because they have to waste time and is considered impractical.
In addition to doing sex therapy can also be done following these tips:
A. Point of mind and concentration, avoid your mind on something that had nothing to do with sex during intercourse. It could also be thinking about the things you do not like. This will reduce the stimulation received. Keep as well as anxiety and worry.
2. Reduce the sensitivity on the penis head. Use a condom, cream, or other sex aids that can reduce the stimulation received by the men. Choose the type of condom use 2-3 layers thick or condoms at once (first use condoms until 1/4 sections cover the penis, the condom-2 used 1/2 parts cover the penis and a condom to cover the whole penis-3). In this way the sensitivity of the glans (penis glands) will be slightly reduced and sensation condoms layer 3 will feel good to your wife.
3. Pull technique. When the husband would rush to orgasm removed in time, do not let the sperm out of all. This technique takes the role of the wife in order to be successful.
4. Squeeze technique (Sex is part of the therapy). When will the ejaculation, the husband must immediately inform the wife that the wife immediately hit the bottom of the penis head (glands penis) with your thumb finger to block the flow of ejaculate sperm to complete phase of ejaculation. Or by pressing the base of the penis with the thumb finger. The pressure of the thumb finger will prevent the flow of seminal fluid / semen out.
5. The exact position of intercourse. Look for intercourse positions that usually you can take a long time. Wear these positions early in the game so you can last longer and your partner have an orgasm or out first.
6. Longer foreplay. Warm up (foreplay) much longer until your wife is really turned on (if necessary until an orgasm), so even if you ejaculate in a fast but your wife has also been satisfied.
Method of treatment of premature ejaculation the other is by using efficacious drugs to control ejaculation. There are several types of drugs that can control ejaculation. But given the drug has side effects, then its use should be under the supervision of a physician.
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