Tips to avoid arguments

 

Compiled from several sources here are tips to keep quarrels in the family:

Do not widen the Problem
Errors that often occur when the couple is fighting, they often bring up things that strayed away from issues. Tryto focus on the issues currently being faced, not a problem in the past or small things that can exacerbate a fight and stop talking inhale deeply.

Stop for a moment
There are no rules in love all issues must be resolved on the spot and at that moment. Say you need time to be quiet and calm the mind, so that any decision would be taken later on is through careful thought, not because of a spontaneous decision because of emotions covered.

Note the tone of voice

Time both in the atmosphere heats up, people become much easier to be sarcastic, and raising the tone of voice. Either intentionally or spontaneously, it is done solely to show dominance, so that more voice be heard and to defend their arguments.

Avoid the Negative Body Language

Crossed arms, his back to the other person, hands on hips and pointing couples face will only make you look more and more angry and could not 'reach'. Negative body language can also increase the emotions so that anger can pair rising, stood with a neutral stance, hands on the side, face to face with your partner try to calm as possible.

Change your mood and couples

Slipped a joke during a fight? It may sound strange. The couple may also be frowned or raised an eyebrow when I heard your jokes when debating. But how can it reduce the tension in the argument.

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