Marc & Angel (2007) suggests that maturity is not situated on the size of his age, but rather on how far he has an emotional maturity level. Here are his thoughts on the characteristics or maturity characteristics of the real views of emotional maturity.
- Growing awareness that maturity is not a state but is an ongoing process and continually seek improvement and self improvement.
- Having the ability to manage ourselves from feelings of jealousy and envy.
- Having the ability to listen and evaluate from the perspective of others.
- Having the ability to maintain patience and flexibility in everyday life.
- Having the ability to accept the fact that one can not always be winners and willing to learn from mistakes and errors on the various results achieved.
- Do not try to over-analyze the negative results obtained, but it can be looked at as a positive thing about her existence.
- Having the ability to distinguish between rational decision-making with the encouragement of emotional (emotional impulse).
- Understand that there will be no skills or abilities in the absence of preparatory measures.
- Have the patience and ability to manage anger.
- Having the ability to keep in mind the feelings of others and try to limit the selfish attitude.
- Having the ability to distinguish between needs (needs) with desire (wants).
- Have the ability to display confidence without arrogance attitude (arrogance).
- Having the ability to overcome any pressure (pressure) with patience.
- Trying to obtain possession (ownership) and be responsible for any personal actions.
- Managing fear of self (personal manages Fears)
- Can see the various "shades of gray" between the extremes of black and white in every situation.
- Have the ability to accept negative feedback as a tool for self-improvement.
- Having a sense of insecurity and self-esteem.
- Having the ability to separate feelings of love with lust for a moment.
- Understand that open communication is the key to progress.
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