Few tips to overcome a sense of solitude:
Indeed, loneliness is often identified with the frightening, frustrating, and even become a symbol of grief. However, if we want to open minds, in fact alone does not always turn off! Loneliness can have two meanings ...
- First, regarding the actual physical solitude, with no one around. Secondly, as only a feeling. It could be that someone was in the crowd, but feel the silence. Maybe you've experienced similar things, especially when facing problems with colleagues, friends, family, or boyfriend?
- One thing you should know, being alone with any sense is actually not a problem if we are able to manage it well, the feelings, attitudes, and every situation.
- How can you manage to make it more meaningful solitude?
- Do the following:
- Find it all with a very positive activity you like, for example by reading, writing, sports, singing, or the like. Whatever your choice. In this way, isolation will be more fun!
- Second, recall the things you and your dreams have not been performed. Maybe you can open a personal agenda, ancient photographs, books, and so forth. Believe it, this way you will be aware of the limited time to realize everything. If you have this, would not it be nice solitude?
- Third, make a list of wishes as much as you want to make happen while still alive. Maybe by writing back 'desire crazy' when you were little? Or other dreams that have not terlaksanakan? At that time you will be aware, a lot of things which need solitude to make it happen!
- And the last one .... Actually this is the 'MAIN' and the first thing you should do ... Draw near to the All-loving yourself. Solitude will be more aware of the nature of your existence in the world. The more powerful these beliefs, the more solid your skills through life, with all the circumstances.
- Essentially, do not let yourself get caught up in an atmosphere of solitude with 'negative heart', let it drag on, to make you despair. If you want to open my eyes, we are never truly alone. There are other people around us. Clearly, there are always certain people that you can make friends, and talk!
- If you want to open, in the solitude you can reflect on many things. In solitude you can find the maturity, wisdom, brilliant ideas, and maximize the potential you have. In solitude you can also uncover the truth, which can be defeated by pride and ego that you often find in the crowd! Inevitably, loneliness can come anytime to anyone, including to you.
- Well, if one day or even when you're hit by this 'lonely' or feel 'own desolation', you must remember, that loneliness is not always deadly!
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